When we witness someone in distress, we’d all like to believe we’d step in to help. But research tells a different story – the more people around, the less likely anyone is to act. This phenomenon, known as the bystander effect, has played out in both small moments and tragic events, shaping the way we respond to crises. But hesitation is a choice – and so is action.
In this episode, we explore why good people freeze in critical moments and, more importantly, how we can train ourselves to override that instinct. From real-world examples of inaction to inspiring stories of ordinary people stepping up, we’ll unpack what makes the difference between standing by and stepping forward. We’ll also discuss simple, practical strategies to prepare yourself to act when it matters most.
At the heart of it all is a shift in perspective – seeing everyone around us as our neighbor, worthy of our care and intervention. The more we embrace this mindset, the easier it becomes to act with courage and compassion. So when the time comes – and it will – who will you be? Will you be the one who steps forward?
Joni Miller is a writer, researcher, spiritual coach, and speaker who uses her knowledge, education, and love of all things spiritual to help others find their unique spiritual path. www.SpiritualGeography.net
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